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This is a recipe to have our posts nuked, but yeah, I agree. I'm far from being a man's man. I hate sports, know nothing about cars, pay someone else to take care of my lawn, and think beer is disgusting. But every once in a while, you just gotta sit down, scratch your balls, eat red meat that's still bleeding, enjoy a hardy whiskey or bourbon on the rocks, and watch explosions. It ain't toxic masculinity my friend; It's good old-fashioned testosterone-fueled expression. Like Walt Whitman said:
I get posts nuked frequently. It only bothers me when they crapcan an entire thread and then it's only because I feel bad for all the other posters who lose their posts too.
I like masculinity to the extent that I grill food with charcoal while drinking beer, ride motorcycles stupidly fast on occasion, rough house with the dog, and when walking through the bad parts of town manage to make potential muggers and thugs clear the way for me. I can be rather menacing when I want to be. But I never liked team sports. Fine with stuff like track where its up to me alone but never played well with others. Especially jocks that tormented me in high school. They usually had to be sent to the nurses office while I pulled the it's an honest accident routine.
As a kid stripping cars and building pipe bombs was more my thing than picking fights or trying to impress girls. But I do likes me some gratuitous violence on TV sometimes. I was real good at it back when I played computer games. I had a kill/death ratio that was legendary in Mechwarrior League. The toughest time with it for me was going into the service. In the Military there's the whole physical readiness mentality and when I was in the Navy they would put Marine's in charge of our PT. That was a bit much. In hindsight though I think it gave me some positive lessons. After awhile you actually come to appreciate that big Jarhead running next to you yelling at you every step of the way because you realize he doesn't want you to fail. He's on your side.
But I never got that feeling of power from shooting a gun like guys get. For me it was all about cool, calm accuracy. It didn't get get my rocks off like that.