I have an Xpander (with Oddenmart external audio input mod) and I've had a Matrix-12 in the past. I don't have a Moog One, but I've used them on sessions and I did have a few MemoryMoogs back in the day.
One thing nobody has mentioned is the unusual filter types on the Xpander/Matrix-12. That's why I still have my Xpander. While the envelopes have their weaknesses, and the raw sound of the oscillators is not world-shattering like Moog stuff, those odd filter types are really something special, and critical to getting a certain type of sound that I've used on a bunch of really aggressive records.
I like them so much that I've got a couple of the Doepfer Xpander filter modules for EuroRack, and they do the job quite nicely but of course are not part of a poly synth.
I've also tried to duplicate some of my 30-year-old Xpander patches that use those filter type on the Arturia version, and you can get pretty close - but it takes 12 or 16 voices of Arturia in unison mode to sound 7/8 as big as 6 voices of Xpander in unison. So.... yeah. The filters are unusual and pretty special, if you like the weird tones that they can do.
You'd think I'd have a Moog One by now but it just didn't light my fire for the type of sounds I use. However it is built to an impeccable high standard and is sturdy and probably more reliable than a Matrix-12. If you go for the Matrix-12, be on the lookout for all the spares you'll eventually need - encoders, buttons, and then there's the displays, which cannot be found anywhere - but there is a modern replacement available at a high price:
http://www.lenham.clara.net/sound/obvfd.html