3rd September 2012
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#91 | | Gear interested
Joined: Feb 2011
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5th September 2012
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#92 | | Gear addict
Joined: Feb 2007 Location: Canada
Posts: 402
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My problem is that I have no interest in anyone that I am not involved with in a music project.
I really enjoy the collaborative creative process - but in any other situation or context, I don't want anything to do with others.
100% of my "friends" since adolescence (Im 45) have been people I've made music with. Our friendships have all ended when the project has stopped.
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5th September 2012
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#93 | | Lives for gear
Joined: Feb 2009 Location: Ontario Canada
Posts: 1,047
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Originally Posted by los marbles Our friendships have all ended when the project has stopped. |
Hey, wanna be my BFF for 6 months?
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8th September 2012
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#94 | | Lives for gear
Joined: Apr 2004 Location: Somewhere between France and Absurdistan
Posts: 1,443
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I'm certainly a misanthrope. But i blame it on the human condition. When you look at how our brains are built ( with layers and stratas that got layered through evolution ), we have parts that are constantly in contradiction with each other. We are still nothing but slightly evolved stupid animals.
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8th September 2012
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#95 | | Telling it like it is
Joined: May 2010 Location: Queens, NY
Posts: 3,033
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I've found that whether I hate people or not is directly related to the company I keep.
I've maintained a higher standard circle of friends and found that I didn't hate people as much as I thought.
Regards,
Frank
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8th September 2012
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#96 | | Lives for gear
Joined: May 2008 Location: Second Largest French City | Quote:
Originally Posted by los marbles My problem is that I have no interest in anyone that I am not involved with in a music project.
I really enjoy the collaborative creative process - but in any other situation or context, I don't want anything to do with others.
100% of my "friends" since adolescence (Im 45) have been people I've made music with. Our friendships have all ended when the project has stopped. | Time to do some more work together, then |
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8th September 2012
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#97 | | Lives for gear
Joined: Oct 2007 Location: philadelphia
Posts: 926
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Originally Posted by ionian I've found that whether I hate people or not is directly related to the company I keep.
I've maintained a higher standard circle of friends and found that I didn't hate people as much as I thought.
Regards,
Frank | Being of the extremely captious and easy to feel disgusted w/ humans folk, I believe this to be true.
There are hidden gems of humans and they've usually traveled the road of pain and the depth to process it.
But no OP. you're hardly alone.
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8th September 2012
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#98 | | Lives for gear
Joined: Jul 2011 Location: florida
Posts: 1,342
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My state and even better my city is full of people I try to avoid! lol
Florida packs them in for the long haul!!!! Guy so drunk that he needed to drive to get more beer while watching his grandchild; moreover, left the kid in the car while he gets beer, and then on his way out falls off the curb smashing his head on the embankment all while I and many others watch and fear for the child enough to call authorities.... This was September 7th in Tampa, Fl. |
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9th September 2012
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#99 | | Klaatu.. barada.. nikto..
Joined: May 2005 Location: Canada
Posts: 683
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Nihilists! F*&k me... I mean, say what you like about the tenets of National Socialism, Dude, at least it's an ethos.
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9th September 2012
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#100 | | Gear Guru
Joined: May 2008 Location: Mountain View, CA
Posts: 12,259
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I am the Walrus?
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9th September 2012
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#101 | | Telling it like it is
Joined: May 2010 Location: Queens, NY
Posts: 3,033
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Shut the f**k up, Donnie.
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11th September 2012
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#102 | | Gear Head
Joined: Jun 2011
Posts: 73
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I'm full o' hate at the moment.
I feel like the majority of people I come across these days are only interested in ****ing someone pretty and consuming. They only bother with concious thought because they've worked out that's the easiest way to get said ****/food.
Not many people actually seem interested in doing something useful or indeed well. No pride in something they've achieved unless it was a particularly large meal or pretty ****.
Humanity has a lot of catching up to do. Me included.
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11th September 2012
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#103 | | Telling it like it is
Joined: May 2010 Location: Queens, NY
Posts: 3,033
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Originally Posted by valerianroot I'm full o' hate at the moment. | Ok, you need to take some valerian root and relax. That stuff will help you get some sleep.
Regards,
Frank
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11th September 2012
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#104 | | CEO - Z-Shift LLC
Joined: Oct 2008 Location: Boise, ID
Posts: 2,198
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Originally Posted by ionian Ok, you need to take some valerian root and relax. That stuff will help you get some sleep.
Regards,
Frank | Does that stuff really work? I'm desperate enough to try it at this point!
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11th September 2012
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#105 | | Telling it like it is
Joined: May 2010 Location: Queens, NY
Posts: 3,033
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Originally Posted by jrhager84 Does that stuff really work? I'm desperate enough to try it at this point!
Sent from my SAMSUNG-SGH-I777 using Tapatalk | I'm sure it does. I used to take it back when I was like 21 because I always had panic attacks so this massage therapist had recommended it to me. But again, it's like confirmation bias - I don't know if it worked because it's legit or if I just believed it was going to work!
I'd say take a chance. If you fall asleep, you'll know it worked.
Regards,
Frank
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11th September 2012
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#106 | | Lives for gear
Joined: Sep 2010 Location: earth
Posts: 638
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Many of the things i dislike about others are similar to things I don't like about myself. I try not to throw too many stones, they seem have this way of making U-turns. I'd be a hypocrite and not many people appreciate hypocrites, afaik.
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11th September 2012
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#107 | | Lives for gear
Joined: Jan 2006
Posts: 1,077
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Anyone who drives an Audi.. What are they all about ? |
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11th September 2012
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#108 | | Gear maniac
Joined: Nov 2011 Location: York
Posts: 200
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I don't hate people, they just hate me. I try to be a nice person and I try to be there for others and help them out in anyway I can when I can, I've come to realise that we live in very selfish times and 9.5 times out of 10 people aren't willing to give me the time that I give them when they need it.That is generally why I work and make music by myself, because I've been let down too many times.
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12th September 2012
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#109 | | Lives for gear
Joined: Sep 2010 Location: earth
Posts: 638
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dont let the world break you down.
easier said than done tho.
the other side of the coin, don't be "the world" either.
also easier said than done.
apparently, this world ain't easy.
edit:
while i've been at odds with my brother for 30 years.
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12th September 2012
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#110 | | Gear maniac
Joined: Sep 2010
Posts: 286
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Best bumper sticker:
"People suck."
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13th September 2012
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#111 | | Guitar/Vox of Skyway Ave.
Joined: Oct 2008 Location: Bournemouth, UK
Posts: 1,345
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I've worked part time in retail through college for the past 2 years - I hated people before, now I hate them with every bone in my body. It's a wonder how some people even get dressed in the morning.
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13th September 2012
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#112 | | Gear interested
Joined: Jun 2011 Location: Underground
Posts: 19
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I do. I just ****ing hate everybody. There are a lot of people out there but why it is so hard to find people who are like you, share same kind of thoughts and so on? Maybe I should go out more often..
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15th September 2012
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#113 | | Lives for gear
Joined: Jul 2011 Location: florida
Posts: 1,342
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It is very pleasing to know I am not the only one.
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16th September 2012
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#114 | | Gear nut
Joined: Mar 2011 Location: Dublin, Ireland
Posts: 89
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I am so happy about this thread. For so long I have hated most people bar a small handful of friends (3 to be exact) and my GF. They just don't get it. I'd rather be at home or doing something music related than being in a "club" with a bunch of drunk a-holes... Thank you for making me feel better for hating people. |
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16th September 2012
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#115 | | Lives for gear
Joined: Jul 2011 Location: florida
Posts: 1,342
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Originally Posted by PeterAshmore I am so happy about this thread. For so long I have hated most people bar a small handful of friends (3 to be exact) and my GF. They just don't get it. I'd rather be at home or doing something music related than being in a "club" with a bunch of drunk a-holes... Thank you for making me feel better for hating people.  | amen dude! we on the same planet... at home with my headphones or small studio speakers makes me much more happy than a club with some knob stepping on my toes and some stank breath snagle tooth broad trying to get me in her pants! lol
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16th September 2012
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#116 | | Gear nut
Joined: Mar 2011 Location: Dublin, Ireland
Posts: 89
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Originally Posted by teknatronik amen dude! we on the same planet... at home with my headphones or small studio speakers makes me much more happy than a club with some knob stepping on my toes and some stank breath snagle tooth broad trying to get me in her pants! lol | Hahahaha everyone in this thread should have a party where we could all talk about how much we hate everybody. it could be a life changing thing for us all... Or we could all just end up hating each other...
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17th September 2012
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#117 | | Gear Head
Joined: Jun 2011
Posts: 73
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Hahahaha everyone in this thread should have a party where we could all talk about how much we hate everybody. it could be a life changing thing for us all... Or we could all just end up hating each other...
| We wouldn't be able to listen to music would we? I can imagine that being a nightmare.
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17th September 2012
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#118 | | Gear Head
Joined: Aug 2012
Posts: 33
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The older I get, the more I dislike people.
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17th September 2012
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#119 | | Gear Guru
Joined: May 2008 Location: Mountain View, CA
Posts: 12,259
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Originally Posted by damondarkwalker The older I get, the more I dislike people. | Damon Darkwalker. Are you are a fan of the book Dark Wars by chance? I have to warn you that I may hate you less if so, but we'll find some way to work around that.
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17th September 2012
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#120 | | Gear Head
Joined: Aug 2012
Posts: 33
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Originally Posted by Dean Roddey Damon Darkwalker. Are you are a fan of the book Dark Wars by chance? I have to warn you that I may hate you less if so, but we'll find some way to work around that. | haha sorry I don't know Dark Wars is. Got my name from a girl who signed me up to yahoo chat years ago. Guess she thought I was some kind of evil nerd. Which...I guess I am. |
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