Kicking around the Geekslutz forum of course doesn't hurt, but one of the best places I've found is
http://www.prodigy-pro.com/forum/index.php this used to be the same group that was on recording.org
I'm still a mere lurker over there, but it is the first place I will go when I build my first piece of gear
Of course you might want to also pick up some basic electronics books from a bookstore or radioshack, this'll get you on track to reading and understanding schematics, from there you will start to recognize similar things between pieces of gear and that'll give you a great start on figuring out what is really going on inside (or where you should tap to build your own direct out)
Good Luck
Peter