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Originally Posted by logicll Hmmm…
Yes, my fault….but how….that is the question….My (Job) play’s a major role in my life and better or worse it affect every aspect of my life..I hate to think this is all my fault…women tend to stray sometimes.. |
I wouldn't spend too much time trying to figure out who's "fault" it was - a little one dimensional don't you think?
It's fair to say that most people are not self aware enough nor possess the language to really tell you what isn't working in the relationship; yet we as humans have an astonishing and intrinsic ability to decipher these things.
Ever wonder how so many perfect dysfunctional find each other?
As sad as it is, we're destined to repeat and act on relationship models which are familiar to us unless we make conscious decisions not to.
If being treated "like gold" didn't fit her relationship schema, then it was never gonna work in the first place.
People love to blame the symptoms of a failing relationship as cause for a break up while ignoring the fundamental and underlying problems. "Loss of interest" is just so utterly vague, that I doubt even she, if prodded, could tell you why she lost interest without citing more surface symptoms.
Good luck with your career, it sounds as if you're doing well.
Enjoy the single life. It is a good life.
