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Originally Posted by RockManDan  eh, depends on how you do it. if you lay it out straight up beforehand that you won't take any crap, then you look like the one with the bigger set, and he can take it or leave it.
I say decide upfront that you will only work for x dollars with y amount upfront (hopefully as close as you can get to 100%). You reserve the right to bail at any time if you feel threatened in any way, and that you won't hesitate to bring the law in if you are threatened in body or in property. Get this in writing, signed, and notarized if you want. Make sure you make him understand that you are in charge of the sessions, and that difficult behavior will only make him lose time and money.
Decide these things to yourself upfront, have a stiff drink, then call him and and tell him how it is. He's coming to you, so you have the upper hand. It is now his job to court you for your expertise, so congrats! you are in the best position! |
I cannot say that the above is entirely correct.
For one thing "giving crap" is not a black and white issue.
For another, he may be coming back to you for the fact that you can take his shit without getting bent. That is a very big thing in this industry. If you can keep your ego out of it and carry on, it is noticed and appreciated by all. They may not utter a word of gratitude to you but it is huge.
Also, over the years the artists that have tested me the most are the ones that have helped me to grow the most. Think of working with testy types as a zen polishing. Be more concerned and aware of how you react (or better yet respond) to his abrasive nature. Be less concerned about his emotional outbursts.
I am not saying that it is easy but the older and wiser one gets the more your uptight clients kind of rubbish rolls off the back.
Try to approach him as a friend and an easy guy to work with and try to never flinch or change your pace. He will silently respect you for this.
Working with him can be good for you.
PS. Save the stiff drink for after the session (I recommend Kettle One on the rocks).