Just would like to add that yes, pirated software is theft! Stealing does matter! Fortunately, 95% of us still purchase our software legitimately. We don't want a software fiasco similar to that of the housing market!
That said, when it comes to your 15 year old neighbor, why are you guys so insecure? Do you think that kid will be able to match your skill level as well? Its just a tool... like a crescent wrench.