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Originally Posted by Jay-  sheese, Only gave her a gift for her b-day.
Nothing more was implied either sexual or other. |
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It was implied by you - you said the "woman you're trying to get with won't wear your gifts". Women aren't nuts (well - apart from the ones who are nuts). Gifts are always for something - even if just an expression of feeling from one person to another. Gifts are sent in thanks - the value of the gift weighing in at the level of thanks for whatever turn was done. Gifts are given in paternal and maternal love to their kids, gifts are given to business associates who've done a good job. Gifts are given between romantic partners as expression of love - an expensive gift generally signifies great feeling between them - unless you're married and having an affair in which case it's guilt etc ! ho ho.
Either way - buying someone an expensive gift for their birthday when you're not very close them or just a multimillionaire - gives certain signals. Signals that may or may not be reflected back to you. In fact buying someone you are into a gift may often have exactly the opposite effect. Once done, the damage is difficult to undo. You're now on a path where she pretty much knows how you feel about her..... the future isn't set, but you've pretty much spilled the beans!
You're an unusual fellow - from these actions and from your signature strip. You seem to operate outside of what the majority do - don't change, but do realise that for most, you may be somewhat unusual! Understand that in yourself and you may go a long way to getting the sort of relationships you clearly desire....