[HeavyG]

I act like a conducter in front of him...hand signals for softer, lounder, ride, etc. If I am the player, I just remember that dynamics are the most important part of my performance...bring it down in the verses...build crescendos where needed...when to push...when to pull...etc. You should have a short meeting with the player prior to hitting the record button to discuss how he or she should approach the performance and let them know how important dynamics are...

Some drummers without studio experience lack this skill...but it can be taught (like anything). They are used to pounding away and fighting to be heard...the mics will hear them beautifully...so you can coach them to get the desired outcome.