| also from dyd
WHAT'S REALLY GOING ON HERE? WHY DO MEN USUALLY
BUY THINGS FOR WOMEN? WHAT'S THE REAL ISSUE?
If you're willing to be completely open and
honest about it, you'll realize that most men:
1) Use dinners, flowers, gifts, and other "favors"
as bait and/or payment for women's time and
attention.
2) Don't feel deep down like an ATTRACTIVE woman
would want to be with them JUST BECAUSE SHE
ENJOYED THEIR COMPANY and felt ATTRACTION for
them.
3) Have no idea what the ACTUAL affect of trying
to lure women with these kinds of things is.
4) MOST IMPORTANTLY> DON'T KNOW WHAT ELSE TO DO.
I can remember when I used to think that I
needed to always take a woman out, buy them
dinner, and pay for whatever I could think of to
get a woman's attention.
It was really a horrible feeling.
The worst part was that the more nice things I
did for women when I first met them, the more
apprehensive and "standoffish" they seemed to act.
It was almost as if they interpreted my actions
as ME TRYING TOO HARD, and they instinctively
played "hard to get" in response. |