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Originally Posted by kpaw 
, 18 inch thick rope chain for her neck. Total cost was almost $8,000.
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18" thick? Are you dating Mr. T?
seriously though...
from dyd (David DeAngelo)
This is a common dilemma that most men face...
"To pay or not to pay, that is the question."
Here are some of the problems that "paying"
creates:
1. It sets you up as the one who is "pursuing" the
woman, which symbolically gives away your power to
her.
2. It can be expensive.
3. It usually causes women to play even "harder to
get".
4. It triggers all kinds of "courtship" behaviors.
Like her making you prove yourself, waiting to
have sex, etc.
5. The places you'll be going to "pay" are often
not the best places to actually get to know
another human being. Movies, fancy dinners, etc.,
aren't natural environments and they don't lead to
people "being themselves".