| Depending on her career, "she is afraid of breaking it at work" isn't necessarily a bad thing. I've bought my lady a few jewelry items, and she doesn't wear them to work either.
Fine by me.
My girl has bought me a few microphones, a guitar, and a small tube amp (and countless other non music stuff). I don't feel obligated to use them on every session...
Maybe those jewelry items don't fit with her "vibe" or "style" sometimes.
As a previous poster stated - if you're not already in a relationship with her, maybe you're coming on too strong.
Take a step back, hit on some other chicks, play "hard to get" and if she's really interested in you.... she'll come running.
Please and thank you,
Pfhuck |