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Originally Posted by henryrobinett Find out what is being said about you and why. Maybe there's something you should be looking at? Then take the bastard on, full force, nothing covert or cute about it. Those behind the back stabbers can't handle confrontation for the most part. They're chickenshit and crumble when face to face with the BS.
But first you have to know what you're fighting and why. The worse thing you can do is sit and fester on it. Action! You gotta take NON-VIOLENT action. |
You said thanks for the advice and continued to say you feel powerless. You will continue to feel powerless if you do nothing. You haven't dealt with the issues so they still have power over you. And you can't "get over it" until you deal with it. It's that simple. It's life.