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Originally Posted by octatonic  Arrogance, I have found, is usually insecurity turned outward- a way of trying to prove to the world that you aren't as scared as you actually are.
I've never met an arrogant person that wasn't a colossal emotional f*ckup.
Malmsteen is the classic example. |
Could be. But I think people who get offended by arrogance are often exhibiting insecurity. I think what is sometimes perceived as arrogance is merely confidence. Sometimes supreme confidence.
Most of the people I admire artistically were confident and have been perceived as arrogant. Even those who some think are modest and shy, what lies underneath is often supreme confidence. Not always. Some people, even those so confident, are also plagued by doubt.
I've always been able to separate my appreciation for someones work and themselves. I've known a lot of famous, great artists. Many would just offend people by merely being themselves. But most everyone loved and admired their work. It takes a huge and hopefully, healthy ego, to overcome obstacles and rise to the occassion.
But what I fond MOST intersting is the mass public who'd like to shove you down if you dare to think you're better or even exceptional.
THAT is greatly offensive. It's offensive because it pushes people very own buttons of failure.